Coping
with peer pressure
Ricardo Campbell,Youthlink Writer
Perhaps
you have been pressured to engage in activities
that are against your moral standing or
you have compromised your integrity to fit
in and be liked by others.
Maybe
you've lied to your teacher about the late
submission of an assignment, or cheated
on a test or exam. What about stealing,
smoking or drinking? Have you done any of
them to appear 'cool' in the eyes of your
friends/peers?
Nobody
aspires to be disliked or rejected. We are
all social beings who require acceptance
from friends, family and even strangers.
So, to some extent, we've all yielded to
expectations that society have of us, whether
we care to admit it or not. How do youths
in western Jamaica cope with issues involving
peer pressure?
Mark
McBean
I
really am not influenced by others and what
they do or say, I just do my thing. I would
more likely be the one influencing others
- good influence, of course. I always like
to see other people striving towards success,
so it is never my intention to hold back
a person. If a doctor could do a peer pressure
test like a blood-pressure test, my friends'
pressures would more than likely be good.
Worrell
Anderson
I
am an antisocial person, so if I don't know
people I don't really talk to them unless
they make the first approach. Therefore,
the pressure for me is at a minimum. If
I am pressured to smoke, for example, I
just won't do it. As a little child, I realised
the dangers of smoking and have always been
against it. I would not be gullible to such
pressures.
Tiray
Thaxter
Well,
most youths know right from wrong and the
consequences associated with their actions.
At the end of the day, it's a person's choice
to give into the influence of peer pressure.
Personally, when pressured I sometimes say
a word of prayer. Giving into pressure is
weak, but a strong person is different from
the rest.
Danah
Dunkley
I
am an independent person and I like to do
things myself. I don't like to follow the
crowd; it takes a strong person to stand
alone. When it comes to decisions, I like
to make them on my own.
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